Discovering Me

Many years ago in a place not so far away, I learned that–contrary to my childhood notions–sex is good.

My discoveries have transformed me, of course. And I know that I have been unusually fortunate to have encountered the people and places which have led me in my discovering.

I know that the opportunities that I have had are uncommon; I have decided that by sharing my stories and struggles, perhaps other people (especially girls and women) will glean some wee bit of benefit for themselves and their self-discovery.

I believe that good sex is the key to happiness. I say this because I also believe that truly good sex requires that I am authentic. For me, re-learning sex was a fundamental part of becoming authentic. And so, I propose that to be happy, we must become authentic–and if sex be our vehicle, well, YUM.